It’s funny because even though I am “at peace” with myself, I still desire love and affection from a man. Even though I have so much more free time and can do what I want to do, I still would enjoy the company of some testosterone. I mean, don’t get me wrong, I do have a good time with myself, but there’s only so much enjoyment I can have before I start to get bored!
Now Ladies, don’t misunderstand…I want a man; I don’t need a man. There is a significant different between the two and that difference is survival. If I have to have something in order to live—that’s a need. Food, air, water—those things are critical to my survival. A penis is not! In the past, I’ve been guilty of saying “I need a man.” But the things is, I can feed myself, I can clothe myself and I can wipe my own behind—so I can actually survive without a man.
Ok…so now that I’ve fully convinced you and me that I don’t need a man, I can tell you why I want one! It’s simple: I just want someone who can enjoy life’s spontaneous moments with me. Let me explain. With friends, a lot of times you have to plan things. You have to plan to meet up for dinner, plan to do something next weekend, plan to go to the gym together. With a boyfriend, there is not as much “planning” and more “going.” Let’s go to that new restaurant down the street tonight, let’s go to the movies, let’s go get some ice cream. When I’m single, I can also, just “go,” but then I’m going alone. Oh…the irony…I have the flexibility to do what I want, when I want—but I don’t want to go by myself….